Marriage, Sexual live and many more W/ Duchess

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SPEAKER_05 0:00

Right. I've been drinking software because I want him to eat my pussy.

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You want to do us? I want him to eat my pussy or I want to squat on his face. Oh wow. That's that's good for you and him.

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Why would we still like him to ask? Let me take a picture of all your friends I found in this country. I just want to make sure I've not lost them. Oh my god.

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Kindly unfitter. We will drop. We will stay attacking. What are we gonna say?

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Welcome to another episode of Kindly Unfitter. Hold on, hold on, hold on. Did you guys miss us? Of course, we missed you guys. And today I'm your host, Wilson, and we have Shay also. And we have the most covious. The one present of the one present of Carl. Woo! Gorgeous! The one and only Duchess. Again, Priscilla. Again, talking to us about marriage. Yeah. I mean, she just got married, so why not? Why not? But first of all, first of all, you know, they say I have it to know what this is. What is it? I have a toothpick or bone. I have a boat of people to me. I have if I have to pack with you. I would. Duchess, you got married and you know, tell me. Like you're not even invited.

SPEAKER_05 1:23

Wait, are we going to get right into the fight? Calm down. Yes, we're going to go.

SPEAKER_04 1:26

Yeah, because let's start from the Genesis. When you got engaged, I congratulated you. So we'll say, don't worry when I'm going, I'm going to invite you. And I was seeing your wedding online. Even if not parallel wedding, even if not court wedding, before you first invited me, I would have showed up. But to be honest, that's why you see I not call it till today. Yes. I never said, Oh, you're coming to our thing. Oh, yeah. Because I hold grudge against you. I mean, I know you forgive you. I mean, holding grudge again. Why? What what what happened? What happened to her? Why did you not invite me? After you said you're going to invite me to your wedding. Okay.

SPEAKER_05 2:04

Why?

SPEAKER_04 2:06

She can't find words.

SPEAKER_05 2:08

You have to find words. The thing is.

SPEAKER_04 2:10

She's short of words.

SPEAKER_05 2:11

The thing is, I thought about it. And I feel like if you come and I posted a picture and people see the picture and they see you, a lot of people will start messaging me that so you have everything. It's not invited.

SPEAKER_04 2:26

Well, because I what's your your level of this thing with that within?

SPEAKER_05 2:28

Then also, see, people always think I'm I'm not in a I'm like I'm always single. Even when I was doing all the rubbish I was doing in Toronto, I've always been in a relationship. But I'm a I'm a Leo. Everything about my life is out of it. Are you a Leo? Yes, I do, yes. But my relationship is always why?

SPEAKER_06 2:47

Right then.

SPEAKER_05 2:47

Because the thing is, people always wonder why somebody wanna be with me. And every guy that has always been with me is always amazing. And I don't want to lose the person. I have my own jealousy. Like, for example, I don't want my man out there because I'm jealous of somebody taking my man. Okay. But when the big wedding comes upon, you will be one of the bridesmaids that are before Chief Bridesmade.

SPEAKER_04 3:16

Period. Do it. Chief, is it is it Chief Bryce Mead or Chief Bridge?

SPEAKER_05 3:20

We go get yeah, we go get we go get no, we go get for my we go get bride smade, but my bridesmaid that would be female and me.

SPEAKER_04 3:27

Good, good. But I mean, I was I was meant to ask, like, why why now, like, why the marriage now? Like, what was the turning point for you that you were like, oh, you know, I don't want to, um uh um, because I mean late last year you said you stop doing hookup, like you're yeah, yeah, that was what you said into prostitution, is it because they call it sleeping with people for mere for money? Ah I mean, she said you know that she's no longer doing you know sex for pay. Oh Jesus. Yes, it's not to say it's just so what so what was the starting point for you? Like, why did you not say okay? No, was um and you I I mean you you just go right in, you just let me introduce myself even though because we have done first episodes before now, before this one. When I didn't know you, that's why I said we are back. You don't miss us, of course you missed us. So what was the starting point for you? Like, why did you say, okay, now I want to get married? I've been talking to this guy for a very long time, right?

SPEAKER_05 4:28

One question at a time, you don't start.

SPEAKER_04 4:29

Okay, okay, okay.

SPEAKER_05 4:30

Okay. Um, for me, last year, when for people that have been watching me online, last year when we started last year, people saw all close I became with God. And people saw how I used to talk about, oh, I'm going on a day, I'm looking for my husband. Everybody thinks, I know a lot of people do shit for content, but I'm not one of them. People think I was joking, but I'm th I'm gonna be 34. Wow. I know I look good. I look better than your mother. Oh, wow. And your sister, okay, and everybody in your household. Cluck it, clock it. But at the end of the day, um, I just felt like I was growing older.

SPEAKER_04 5:08

Settle down.

SPEAKER_05 5:10

I don't know if I want to settle down, but I just wanted someone.

SPEAKER_04 5:13

So you're not settled down now. She's just she said before that she had first, this is not going to be the last one, you know? God guys, boop, boop, boop, shut up. You can still come and divorce again and she'll go to the next level.

SPEAKER_05 5:24

No, if my husband, if my present husband uh pissed me off, or if you're it's a present husband, nothing. If it doesn't work, think I'm gonna be there, I'm gonna move to the world. I mean, you have free will. Yeah, of course. So it's just like I felt like, okay, I'm at that age, and also I needed someone like I've been with so many, so many people, sometimes you just want that special love and care from someone. So people think and because I play a lot, people think I don't like we all have our real life apart from online. So it was just that time, and I was praying for it last year. So I just felt like God wanted to show me that I hear your prayers, took that husband. I was like, But it was so quick though, because as you did your engagement, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 6:13

As you did your engagements the next week. How long I saw wedding pictures. How long was your relationship? Like, did you guys date before getting engaged?

SPEAKER_05 6:21

I met this guy in September of last year? Yeah. September ending. And I went to a party. No, somebody told me about him. And the person that told me about him, I think they told me told him about me too. Then when I got to the party, it was when it was cold a little bit on that day because I can remember. Yeah. Then I took off my jacket and it was like, yeah, yeah. Priscilla. Aquaba. It's Daniel. So they pronounced Priscilla as Priscilla. She was like, Priscilla, I will never forget. Priscilla, you have measured.

SPEAKER_04 7:00

She was like, means you have a lot of buddy. Exactly.

SPEAKER_05 7:03

But what is uh I'm someone that I don't have a type. Just look good, smell good. Yeah, look good, smell good, look at a sense of humor and have money. Of course. Is it rich? It looks nice. I know I've not seen it, he looks to he likes to look put together. Yeah. So on that day, it look really looked put together like for me, Snickers. Yeah. Because I I wear glasses, I would glance through you. Right. And he was like, You have measure. I was like, that's funny. Because to me, that's a good sense of humor. Yeah. And at the end of the day, I love myself and I love my ass. Exactly. Period.

SPEAKER_04 7:37

And that was how you got to.

SPEAKER_05 7:38

So that was, yeah. And I gave him my number and we started talking. Then he asked me, he asked me out, and I told him, I don't want a boyfriend, I want a husband. Ooh, straight up. I'm someone that I'm very sincere about what I want, and I know what I want. And he was like, mm.

SPEAKER_04 7:54

And was he looking for your wife then also?

SPEAKER_05 7:57

I don't know for him. Because he told me that he has not been in a relationship for like two years before he met me. But also I'm very big on Jodiac. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 8:07

What is Zodiac sign?

SPEAKER_05 8:08

I'm a Leo, he's a Gemini. So we match. Really? We match.

SPEAKER_04 8:12

I know of like Leo's and Aquarius.

SPEAKER_05 8:14

The best, you know, the best match for Leo is Aquarius, Gemini, and Libra. Told us Willie Wood. No. He's trying to set into it. If you want to now go to other fire, you now do okay, your same fire like Leo for the colour. Ah, Leo Leo will be crazy. Oh my god. I will never be with Lio energy. Because we'll be fighting. Yeah, yes. Yeah, it'll be toxic.

SPEAKER_02 8:36

It will be toxic.

SPEAKER_05 8:37

That's why I said my ex was like really nice as people. And Aquarius are very sexual. I'm very sexual.

SPEAKER_04 8:42

Please, as Joe, when it's do the access side, you knock off a zack off. Oh, sorry, okay. But let's I we cannot pack that because I'm not sexual.

SPEAKER_05 8:52

Oh, Ghana, you know one god, yeah.

SPEAKER_04 8:55

Wow. Maybe when when when is that webman open that?

SPEAKER_05 8:58

We can accompany.

SPEAKER_04 9:01

Yeah. No, I have a man. We'll be five years in like a few days. Happy anniversary, but include me. So would you say the marriage was more like a personal, like it was more of a personal choice for you, no, like a social expectation or something?

SPEAKER_05 9:15

No, when the social no, it was like it came at the right time. Right. Because I felt like I had like I'm someone in my a lot in the last episode, I talked about how spiritual I am. So I had so many things written in. I'm someone that I have a prayer book. Right. And I literally my prayer book is here because it was praying when I was coming. Amazing. So I had my prayer book and I wrote a lot of things I want for 2025. And marriage was one of them. Right. And I was so confident. Do you know what? I ate 12 cherries on the berries under the table, it's in meat or whatever online.

SPEAKER_04 9:52

Right.

SPEAKER_05 9:53

And I was so sure like it's not gonna happen.

SPEAKER_04 9:56

So sorry, question before you go on. Sorry for cut you here. So 12 berries under the table mean something? Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 10:01

What does it mean? What does it mean? Eat it. You cannot if you're looking for love, you're looking for prosperity, you're looking for good life. Okay.

SPEAKER_04 10:08

Oh, you said it's a myth though.

SPEAKER_05 10:09

But he's not a myth because to me it was.

SPEAKER_04 10:12

It worked for you.

SPEAKER_05 10:13

And it worked. 2025 was my best year so far ever. I've had amazing. Oh wow. 2024 was good for me. I got divorced from my last marriage.

SPEAKER_03 10:23

I got 2026, you divorced this Ghana man. Because you literally saw your name.

SPEAKER_05 10:32

If it doesn't work, I'll do the last one now.

SPEAKER_04 10:35

So wait, question. Sorry, Cam Wilson. Um, are you saying like, God forbid this doesn't work, you're gonna break it off immediately and go for a white person?

SPEAKER_05 10:44

Huh. Before we get there, let me finish that because you're good. Yes, wait, please.

SPEAKER_04 10:50

Wait, space, I continue.

SPEAKER_05 10:52

So, anyways, I was just very I was like, okay, maybe that's not gonna happen. Right. But I actually really wanted it because I people think it was for social experiments. I don't go above and beyond for social media.

SPEAKER_04 11:08

It's my life. Because funny thing was that when I look at this damn one, when I was checking, when I was checking the comment section when you announced that you were getting married, I was people saying, Oh, he paid for his. Oh, he paid for it because of his citizen. Um, in past maybe you want to get it.

SPEAKER_05 11:25

I didn't fight for my last husband. Why will I fight for the next one?

SPEAKER_04 11:29

Right.

SPEAKER_05 11:29

Do you know that if you fight for someone, it takes a while before you can be able to do it. I think so.

SPEAKER_04 11:34

I think so.

SPEAKER_05 11:35

So look at the time.

SPEAKER_04 11:37

Right. You cannot put your life on load.

SPEAKER_05 11:40

I don't even respond to them anymore. It's my life. The night guy is nice. What's today's Sunday? Yeah. I could call him on the phone. Uh. Because right now he's at work, he's supposed to be back tomorrow. Right. And I've been drinking some pickle juice because I want him to eat my pussy. You want him to ask you being a good one. I want him to eat my pussy, and I want to squat on his face.

SPEAKER_04 12:00

Oh wow. That's that's good for you and him.

SPEAKER_05 12:04

But now, as I was now, let's go to your question.

SPEAKER_04 12:07

Yes, now respond to my question.

SPEAKER_05 12:09

So, on that, I am someone that I like good life. Right. I want to be happy for sure. I want to live, like I've gone through a lot in life. I want to enjoy relaxing now. Yeah. The marriage is good. If it stops being good tomorrow, I'm gone.

SPEAKER_04 12:25

So, wait, I as Eddie's class inconvenient. So, my question is, yeah. Um, you know, a lot of times marriage takes work. Is it that, you know, when it's when it's time for you to put in the work, you just off and go? Is that what you're saying?

SPEAKER_05 12:39

No. That's not what I'm saying. Okay. There are some things that you need to be working on. Right. There are some things that don't don't even find. Yeah. There are some so many deal breakers. See, you can get married because you're so in love with each other. Everything I told you it came at the right time. Right time. And the crazy thing is, I had three people that was asking to get married to me at the same time.

SPEAKER_04 13:03

Girl, you are hot.

SPEAKER_05 13:04

I am. That's what you think pissed me off when people say shit about me or not. I'm like, bitch, they wonder how.

SPEAKER_01 13:11

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 13:11

They won that fucking hole. But the other two were not serious at that time. At the time. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 13:18

It was just funny.

SPEAKER_05 13:19

So when this one just came, it was like, oh shit, okay. Another married proposer. And I just like I didn't feel and it was Germany. One of them was Nigerian American army. The other one is white. Oh my god, um.

SPEAKER_04 13:33

I thought you said you want a white person.

SPEAKER_05 13:36

The thing is, there's a deep breaker. Oh.

SPEAKER_04 13:39

What's the deal?

SPEAKER_05 13:42

I'm gonna be 34. I still don't think I want my own kids.

SPEAKER_04 13:47

Right. And that's very valid. Very valid. So I feel like that's gonna because But one would think the way you are with Fermi, like I love my dog.

SPEAKER_05 13:57

I'd rather have a dog.

SPEAKER_04 13:58

Thanks a human child.

SPEAKER_05 14:00

Oh okay, right now Ferromy's in his cage at home. Will I leave the child in the cage at home?

SPEAKER_02 14:08

Yeah, that's true.

SPEAKER_05 14:10

So I just feel like that might be because right now my husband is from a large family just like me. Right. Is the twin? He's talking. Yeah, he's talking about kids, and I'm like attack here. He's also a twin. Ghani has like blessedly. Let me tell you something your ears. Why not my own ear? Oh, that is so cool. I can show you on the wedding invitation, actually. That's what is on it.

SPEAKER_04 14:44

Inside that sea guy. So um I think my question would be do you think um marriage is a necessity?

SPEAKER_05 14:53

Sometimes, yeah. Why? Because there's so many things that come with marriage. What are the things you're not gonna get hungry?

SPEAKER_04 15:02

Listen, that's a lie. Sorry. So wait, so hold on. Before we're giving food. Wait, hold on. You what are you going to marry into? Have you waited that trend on TikTok where you see all those girls that say, um, um, come cook with me um at 20 years old, the mother of king for my King of King and my Lord of Lord. Yes, I think I don't know, I don't know, hungry. I think that's a good thing.

SPEAKER_05 15:26

Because you can a lot of them, a lot of you people, you are getting pregnant, but they are not marrying you.

SPEAKER_04 15:33

Actually, yes. That is so hot. See, so people smart things like people are texting me right now.

SPEAKER_05 15:39

I'm like, oh, now you're married, oh, when are you having kids? And I'm like, sometimes I reply then, then they reply me back like, so what's the purpose of getting married? No, I didn't get married to her. Right.

SPEAKER_04 15:50

To have kids. I got married to companionship, partnership.

SPEAKER_05 15:54

Then my abuse forced. So you know, for Christmas, my business is coming. Don't just throw my husband gave me $10,000. If if I didn't marry, nobody will give me $10,000.

SPEAKER_02 16:04

Wow.

SPEAKER_05 16:05

Literally, this guy likes me. I'm like, why do you like it? You know, the first question I asked him when we started liking each other, I was like, let me see the picture of all your friends I found in this country. I just want to make sure I've not fucked them.

SPEAKER_03 16:16

Oh my god. That was that's what you asked him.

SPEAKER_05 16:18

That's the question I need to see in jam's face. Serious, that was the first question I asked that I saw that was okay.

SPEAKER_04 16:25

And I I love I love that. I love how open you wear about it. So it it just in case you find out that, oh, I found this celebrities relative.

SPEAKER_05 16:34

So the person is not gonna get because he told me his brother was rich, and I know that unless we tell you, rich people, unless they're not rich with this by fight. So and I'm like, okay, let me see your brother's picture. So he showed his brother. I was like, okay. I've not fucked him. I've not fucked him. Then and the crazy thing is, the way I'm crazy online, this guy is so proud of me. He likes it. I love it. Oh my wedding day is I can show you a picture of all his friends. Yeah, like 15 people.

SPEAKER_04 17:04

Why you see for you so when you brought for your.

SPEAKER_05 17:13

I have understand why I was supposed to, you know, that my exp. They got fucked me up to pick a shift on that day. So I just got mad because I was planning we should do something. Something small. You cook because I love your food, right? Yes. Then as he told me he was working, I just got I was so disappointed. I was like, you can't sacrifice, but you went to Bonner Boy's show, you can't sacrifice the day for me.

SPEAKER_04 17:35

Oh wait, was he working or sick? Like he picked up his shift on that.

SPEAKER_05 17:40

But two days two days before he went. Oh, that is why you're upset.

SPEAKER_04 17:46

I see that makes sense. You not use that one, Nakuman attacked me.

SPEAKER_05 17:49

No, it's not like that because I was like, if he's not there, there's no point. Because I was like planning, you should cook. And we had a great part. The thing is, after the reception, we had another party at the apartment because you know you moved to the city. Yeah, together. I saw it. Yeah. It was so fun. I didn't even know it was gonna be fun. It was so fun. They brought Ghanaian food. I was repeating my friends when they're dead. So I'm planning a new party that all of us could.

SPEAKER_04 18:13

Okay, controversial. Very controversial now. Yeah now that you're dating and uh not dating, married to a Ghanaian man. Sorry, sorry. Now that you're married, I'm sorry, now that you're married to a Guinean man, which is better? Nigerian Jolof or Guinean jalof?

SPEAKER_03 18:27

Of course, Nigerian Jolof. Two fuck is the same.

SPEAKER_05 18:31

I put that on TikTok. Go and watch it. You stay on my TikTok. What the fuck is water? Oh, sorry, baby. You're like Ghana, you are Ghana.

SPEAKER_03 18:39

Ghana you're gonna trash you. Ghana's a lot is trash. It's just the means to further meet so you got the slab. Uma Uma slap. Yeah, that is.

SPEAKER_04 18:51

Do you know? I went to get my head braided, my hair braided, and then the my air style is Ghanaian. And then he made Ghanaian geographic. It was like, oh shit, come on. And I'm like, no, I'm not doing that. It's like the Ghanaian geologic. I'm like, okay, I'm not about to have this cover too. See, just raw tomatoes mixed with rice.

SPEAKER_05 19:06

Yeah, the best food that Ghana had is no, it's not even it's not a chicken food, it's coming. Oh. Okay.

SPEAKER_04 19:13

Oh, wache. Watch. Wache and then um this um this um egg banko. Banku, yes, I love and also I love just okra. Yeah, yeah, that okro. But yeah, so now that we hear the egg in it. We've heard from a married woman. We've heard from a married woman to to like a Ghanian, and she has confirmed. Israel of his love is better than Ghana. Kanye Unfiltered Teams. I have a dilemma about my filter. Hello, Kanye Unfiltered Team. I have a dilemma about my mother-in-law, how my mother-in-law treats me badly. She disrespects me in public, in presence of my kids, friends, and family. I have brought this up to my husband a couple times and he has gaslated me into believing that she doesn't mean it the way I'm receiving it. He tells me stories of how growing up, his mom often was misunderstood. An example was when we went out, we bought some new clothes for the kids, and I picked some for myself. My husband pulled out his car to pay, then she goes, Is my husband not meant to pay for the kids? And I pay for myself, right? At the cashier. There are so many more, it's just exhausting at this point. What do I do?

SPEAKER_02 20:29

Wow.

SPEAKER_04 20:30

Yeah. I feel like that's a lot. You give you an advice for a married man position.

SPEAKER_05 20:37

From a perspective of the marriage, if you were in the position, I I feel like situations like that, because I'm never gonna go through that kind of thing with my email. Are you mad? Are you mad? See, uh people feel like when you marriage is like a bondage or marriage is like something. Marriage is just a commitment between you and your husband. See, it's like I was so in love with you, I want to pay with you for her. Let's get married.

SPEAKER_02 21:05

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 21:05

That's how I see it. But all of I don't know how people say people don't set boundaries.

SPEAKER_03 21:10

Yeah. True.

SPEAKER_05 21:12

For example, my uh fat my husband family, I noticed they started adding me on TikTok. Then I called my husband, I'm like, oh, this person added me because I saw the last name. This person added me on TikTok. Is that your train sister or is that your family said yes? Okay, I was like, okay. Then all now I know the watches. Then on TikTok live, I went and I was like, my in-law.

SPEAKER_04 21:31

Whoa. You told them face to face. I'm here. I know you are here.

SPEAKER_05 21:36

I know you're watching me.

SPEAKER_04 21:37

Right.

SPEAKER_05 21:38

Oh no, okay. I'm not normal. You set bad whatever it's 2026. We are not you you shouldn't be going through marriages of that was ten years ago. Exactly. I feel like our parents' marriage, you understand? The world is it's growing. It's growing. That's why you know why people go through stuff like this. Yeah. There's no communication.

SPEAKER_04 22:01

Actually, yes. I think there is communication, but there are restrictions to communication.

SPEAKER_05 22:05

There's no communication.

SPEAKER_04 22:07

The husband.

SPEAKER_05 22:15

You've gone through life. My dear. That's why in the last episode you asked me if I'm gonna pick a friend or my husband, who will I pick it? Yeah. It's not every secret you tell your husband.

SPEAKER_02 22:27

Really?

SPEAKER_05 22:28

Yes.

SPEAKER_03 22:29

Yes.

SPEAKER_05 22:30

Why? There's some husband. But that's to be your person, your companion. Your husband is your husband. Your husband is your husband.

SPEAKER_04 22:39

Look at all the rule of the husband.

SPEAKER_05 22:42

Everybody has their own idea. I feel like a lot of people can resonate unless people know people are fake. Yeah. A lot of you are fake out there and you won't agree to this. Something, some disrespect that you get is from telling your husband too much. Really? Yes. Okay, for example, me, let's use me. I used to be a prostitute.

SPEAKER_04 23:04

Oh, you didn't tell your husband that?

SPEAKER_05 23:05

No. I will tell my husband that. Get what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_04 23:09

Okay.

SPEAKER_05 23:09

I used to be a prostitute. I told my husband that. When I start telling him every details of everybody I said, okay. When you start doing everything, doing everything, doing everything. He's a human being. No matter the love what you get for him. They will still have for example, you say this person, you say you go pay. Maybe you don't know, maybe the a lot of people, a lot of women or men, whatever, they're going through insecurity.

SPEAKER_02 23:33

Right.

SPEAKER_05 23:34

And they feel like there are some things you have to tell your husband. Husband, no. See, you can make him aware. Take it from me, Marie Duma. Yes, for a marijuana. Forget all the joke online.

SPEAKER_04 23:47

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 23:48

We are his real life. I have shit I'm going through.

SPEAKER_04 23:50

Right.

SPEAKER_05 23:50

I'd rather talk about my mental health online than talking about my mental health to my husband. You know why?

SPEAKER_02 23:56

Why?

SPEAKER_05 23:57

My husband will want to make me feel better. It's just gonna tell me anything.

SPEAKER_04 24:02

Oh, they will oh, social media will make give you the real thing.

SPEAKER_05 24:05

But it's not gonna make me hear what I want to hear. But when I come online, I feel like I'm not talking to it's like going to therapy. Right. Because I'm talking to a physician that's a good idea. Someone like you're saying he's like, it's like online. They don't it's just it's just on the phone. And I'll say physically sometimes I ask for advice, sometimes I don't. Sometimes I just sit down, doesn't mean say you should disrespect my man. But you know that as let's keep it in reality. It's not everything you want to because you feel to some people that you feel team, you like really judge me? Will you stop liking me?

SPEAKER_02 24:38

Really?

SPEAKER_05 24:39

Sometimes sometimes it sounds real life, but sometimes you feel like then you see everything. Let's keep it real. Let's keep it let's keep it real.

SPEAKER_02 24:46

Right.

SPEAKER_05 24:46

Let's keep it a hundred.

SPEAKER_04 24:49

A hundred. I hear you.

SPEAKER_05 24:50

Um you talk about the real shit, you don't want to lie to your husband. Okay, for example, you're cheating.

SPEAKER_04 24:57

Will you tell your husband?

SPEAKER_05 24:58

Let's keep it real. No, that that if I cheat on my husband, I'll be like, Oh baby, I'm sorry, I cheated on you. But I'll not be like, I slept with that guy, he gave me doggy. No. People go through details. Women go through details. Are you sure? Yes, I am a girl. Let me tell the the go women go they go telling me that's because they're comfortable with the man, like they comfortable. The man that are lasting, they keep their girl boy's friend on the side when they want to. Are you sure? Yes, all the people that are insecure about their go online, yeah. Look at all the people that they have good marriages, yeah. They have friends, but you have a healthy relationship with people, it's not just marriage, right? You don't have any insecurity about them, right? I don't have good success stories on friends, likewise. I get it. So I get where anybody, but I'm also as I said, I'm not a feminist, I'm a realist.

SPEAKER_02 26:04

Right.

SPEAKER_05 26:05

But also I have some things that I don't care the love women husband they show me I can't.

SPEAKER_04 26:10

You can never tell him.

SPEAKER_05 26:11

The fuck? So I will not come tomorrow and be saying kiniko, kiniko. Okay, let me use that as as an example. The I said I had three guys that wanted to get married to me, right? Yeah. The other guy that's in America army, if you're watching this, fuck you, bitch. Well, it wasn't deployment. When I came back, we we already talked about it. So I already cleared up my Ashaw narrative online. So I'm trying to like clear it. He knows about it. But because he became serious to his face because I was like, I'm ready. So the marriage is his face, he started worrying about what should be. Then I told him, bitch, your mother is dead. Oh my god. The only person you should be so secured about right now is your mom. She's dead. Why are you so worried? So you didn't know I was Ashaw before?

SPEAKER_02 27:04

You came from being a prostitute.

SPEAKER_05 27:06

You don't let them know every shit. Oh so let's say that guy overlooked, let's say, wait, let's say that guy overlooked that marrying me. Is someone like that that would be like, Ashawish, I know when you were fucking your husband.

SPEAKER_04 27:18

Oh my god. But in this context, actually, whereby Duman is saying she doesn't feel respected. She doesn't feel respected in our home.

SPEAKER_03 27:28

Like saying too much? You do too much. You said too much. No, but this is not from the husband. Marriage? See, you are mad.

SPEAKER_05 27:35

It's like just it's like you say, look at how some people will have 10 years' relationship, and when they get married, the marriage scatter. You think marriage is a different thing. No, it's still relationship. Treat your marriage like you're in a relationship. What about Desmod and Christie? No, I'm talking No, let's use, no, let's use Tuke Makiwa.

SPEAKER_04 27:55

Who's that? Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 27:57

She she dated her husband for 10 good years.

SPEAKER_04 28:00

Dated or Gama. Dated. He said, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 28:02

For 10 good years. They were cool. The relationship was sparkle. She was dark-skinned. She knows she was used to dark skin. The guy said he liked light skin. So she shouldn't for him. Everything for this guy. The guy had a best friend. Calm down. The guy has a best friend. They got married. Allegedly. No, allegedly. Yeah, but she wrote a book about it. She wrote a book about it.

SPEAKER_04 28:26

Becoming becoming token.

SPEAKER_05 28:28

The first year of their marriage, marriage, you know, you go to treat marriage and everything. The man decided having an issue. The man went to confide in the best friend. The man gave the best, get got the best friend pregnant. Oh my God. Oh my God. But the man was still best friend with the girl all through the 10 years of relationship. Oh my God. Think about it. People treat marriage as a different thing. No, marriage is still a relationship. Talking about this Christian stuff.

SPEAKER_04 28:57

Christian, there's no.

SPEAKER_05 28:59

Because you've gotten the mind, you've gotten married. You are married. Is the the word marriage is something to relax upon. People expect me because I'm married, I should not dress nice. They're like, I can show you every dress. As my husband will send me screenshots on TikTok, I'll be like, oh my god, I like the way your Nyash was showing.

SPEAKER_02 29:19

Oh wow.

SPEAKER_05 29:21

That's that's why they feel disrespected in your marriage because they lose themselves. They say I hear that so much. When you were dating the guy, you were dressing spirit, spirit. But when you got married, you stopped doing your hair.

SPEAKER_04 29:35

Yeah, you relaxed. What should she do?

SPEAKER_05 29:38

The mother-in-law, go back to the when you were dating. When you were dating the guy, can the mother-in-law talk to you anyhow? So now when you want to curse boundaries, yeah. Let me give you tips to do. If your mother-in-law is in the same city where you are, go to your mother-in-law's house, buy a basket of fruits and some coals or whatever she likes. Go to her house, give her the fruits and lay give her the gift and lay your boundaries. Don't talk to me anyhow.

SPEAKER_02 30:12

Yeah. Don't disrespect me in my house.

SPEAKER_05 30:16

Even if you have kids, when the guy says tell the woman that if your if your child treats me anyhow, I will leave the kids to your child, to your child, and the man take care of the children.

SPEAKER_04 30:28

There are men that can't mean.

SPEAKER_05 30:29

A guy, they all no man can take care of you. Can you buff child? There's so many men. I swear to God, there's so many men that feel like they can do it. There's nothing like a care of a mother. True. What are you talking about? There's some things that would give honor to men for that. Right. Women need to start, especially women in if you are this being disrespected in your house, in your home, and you want to leave. Please leave.

SPEAKER_02 30:53

Right.

SPEAKER_05 30:54

Don't die there. Absolutely. Please, when you got when you enter the house, you didn't start with the child. Please go out of that marriage without a child. Leave the child with the man. I mean, that's so easy to take care of it. That's easy to me.

SPEAKER_04 31:04

Easier said than done.

SPEAKER_05 31:07

When you do it, when you do it, sometimes you can sacrifice. Women can sacrifice for stupid shit. Sacrifice for that one. If you feel the abiamo, when the guy feels the pain, one, one, one month, two months, three months, if he starts begging you, what am I talking about? Leave the child. If you really love that man, if you know that you love that man, you want him, you love that man, you love that family, and you want your family, your husband, and your husband's family to respect you, lay your boundaries. If they don't align with your boundaries, leave that marriage.

SPEAKER_02 31:40

Right.

SPEAKER_05 31:40

Sometimes you might live with the intention of not leaving the marriage.

SPEAKER_02 31:43

Right.

SPEAKER_05 31:44

Leave for some time, but don't take the children. Right. Because when you take the children, you give them leisure to cheat. When they start con that, yeah, I'm hungry. Mommy is not picking. And they come back up, you will know you are serious.

SPEAKER_02 31:55

Right.

SPEAKER_05 31:55

And also, women, you need to stop going inside a marriage being a liability.

SPEAKER_02 31:59

Right.

SPEAKER_05 32:00

That's the problem you're doing.

SPEAKER_02 32:01

Own your shit.

SPEAKER_05 32:02

You guys don't have money. You want to say shit about me, about being a hook up? I did hook up. I got two condos from that.

SPEAKER_02 32:08

Period.

SPEAKER_05 32:09

I got so many money from that.

SPEAKER_02 32:11

Period.

SPEAKER_05 32:12

I started my business. My husband knows if it's do shit. There are so many money laying out on the queue. Waiting for me to look at it. You just got you just got opened the book. There is a line. Next! Next. I love it. Anyways, on to the next amazing. Okay, the thing that is pissing me off right now on the internet is um people saying I didn't marry for paper.

SPEAKER_04 32:40

Yeah, you got married for paper. Oh for paper for yourself or for the guy's husband, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 32:46

What's your business with her? I'm not gonna say I'm not or I am because I'm not gonna fulfill your happiness. Right. If easy, run them. You said Google your husband, Google your paper. May they pay you. Run them. And also, another thing I want to clear office. If you think because I'm married, I'm not gonna do, I'm not, I'm gonna, I'm not gonna be myself. I mine is now a bundle. I married a very cool, amazing pastor. Let me be myself. And guess what? My website is coming soon. You're gonna see it. I'm gonna start posting video of when he's eating my pussy.

SPEAKER_02 33:21

Oh, wow.

SPEAKER_05 33:22

And buying him a max. Wait, wait. So you can't done. Is it pass done? Now then the shock book was fast.

SPEAKER_04 33:28

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_05 33:29

Pump the breaks. I'm not pumped the breaks. The entire break. Why do you give Mario a shower if you can't do the last yes? That was making someone that his favorite thing. His favorite thing used to be my sh, but his favorite thing is this.

SPEAKER_04 33:44

Oh wow.

SPEAKER_05 33:47

That is a whole steam.

SPEAKER_04 33:49

So we'll see. Do you have your stream there? Well, my team is like a recent steam. So you know, um, Ice VD went to um Nigeria. I mean, he's an African tour. And of course, there are still like many African countries that now we have Nigeria. It was so so if you if you've been on social media, you'll see where black Americans were saying, Oh, but I didn't know that Africa was like this.

SPEAKER_05 34:10

They were some idiots were crying.

SPEAKER_04 34:11

I was so I'm like, the four are you guys ignorant? What can't you blame them? No, what did you think? So Google is so easy. Just understand. Everything is c you Google Africa now. That's true, everything is like everything is controlled. There is a narrative the government wants to pass, so I hear you. Because you imagine someone coming. Oh, I thought Africa had hearts. I thought it was about um um the ugly. I'm like, you can actually Google these things and know how Africa do research.

SPEAKER_05 34:38

Or now that we have TikTok. Even if you don't go, there's TikTok.

SPEAKER_04 34:40

Just check people's TikTok. Do you get like and and I will actually blame those who blame Beyonce? Whenever I blame Beyonce to become Beyonce, she's not an African to the bush. Yeah, it pisses me off. Like you have you have such a huge platform. The least you could do is do I show because I I took it much. Africa is literally the richest continent in the world. Do you understand? And the people are saying, Oh, I thought Africa was full with hearts. Oh, and there were educations there. Oh, no, no. Did you see some of the comments where someone was like, I I saw some videos because I saw that some people made some emotional videos where I say, Oh, I show Speed is literally healing a lot of generations right now because he's going around and showing them what they've liked about where they and I also saw a video of a lady that said, Oh, um, our mom, Grainham, she would tell us, Oh, you better eat that meal now, or else uh people uh people in Africa are are hungry. I'm like, what the fuck?

SPEAKER_03 35:33

I'm like, you say you go put a volume, put meat, put sake.

SPEAKER_04 35:38

We are putting and mind you, she made that TikTok as a joke. I'm like, that is no joke. You're so it's it's sad. Yeah, it's cool. It's so sad. Why can't you research on these things? What do you mean? Oh, I thought I was I was upset. No, I I was like, Yeah, I was like because I also have this as one of my stints I was gonna share. Like, how are you for for a for a country that is really known for researchers, have successful research? Exactly. Why are you doing research is about places to do that?

SPEAKER_05 36:11

You know that you're there's so many illiterate in America, it's just actually and that is what people need to clock.

SPEAKER_04 36:16

A lot of people in America are very lost. People are immigrants. When are they those um um Q and E? Yeah, like, oh, mention a country in Africa, and they'll be saying uh it's African country. No, they must say Africa. I'm like, are you mad? Are you dumb? Why can't you even move to certain countries in Africa to know the country?

SPEAKER_05 36:36

And like this is like even on DGG's dream when GDG came back to America, they were like, oh, people in Africa had big asses. I was like, it went to Nigeria.

SPEAKER_04 36:46

So now I want to even now talk to um black Americans and Americans in general, always black Americans. Listen to me. Listen to me. Um we made a video about you guys being uneducated about what it is like to live in Africa. Now I'm giving you a response because there's a lot of remember that video went viral when you came at us. Now, for a country that education is free, you're so dumb. I except for a country that's supposed to be rich. Mind you, Africa is the richest country because we don't buy credit, we buy cash. Every house we live is the car we drive, it's car. You live on credit. Full payments, no instalments, no installments, fucking installments, full payments.

SPEAKER_05 37:29

But you want to supply the highest number of uh diamonds?

SPEAKER_04 37:32

Yes.

SPEAKER_05 37:34

It's just because we have horrible governments, but it's so good that I should speed up, but the response is looping. Yeah, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. See, I don't want you guys to blame them. At the end of the day, see, is like you said, yeah, it's being censored. Yeah, everything is controlled. Then also, most of the people that came to Africa back then, I feel like the riches of Africa, they don't want other people to see. So they want people to see that, okay, there's nothing to us in a very bad way. Right. And then they don't leave. No, the HRs, they are okay, they used to eat us because we come, we buy the nicest cars, we have the highest education, we have to do it. We take their jobs. So they used to be nice, they used to be so mad at us, but now they can see that I even saw a video they were like with us. Like it's not our expensive backwork is you universities. So I like it. I like the way they are seeing it, and also their vulnerability is not a bad thing.

SPEAKER_04 38:40

It's not eye-opening. I have a problem with people that are making a joke.

SPEAKER_05 38:43

And inject still so emotional. See, people are making a joke out of it. Normally, normally they will make jokes about everything. Yeah, but the people, I'm so grateful for the people that are emotional about it to see.

SPEAKER_04 38:54

Yeah, to see that there is this and this, yes.

SPEAKER_05 38:56

That made DGG, that actually made DDG go back. Go do his ancestry and he saw that he's 25% Nigerian.

SPEAKER_04 39:02

Nigerian, oh, good for him.

SPEAKER_05 39:04

How did they get to that state? Still doesn't change that. Because women beating out so they're thing is doesn't change that.

SPEAKER_04 39:10

At the end of the day, it beats my girl.

SPEAKER_05 39:13

Whatever people grow up to is their thing. But your roots is your roots. Right. A lot of people, even now, uh Latinos. Some Latinos are saying that, oh, I changed it from Africa. Yeah, most of them.

SPEAKER_04 39:26

Yeah, most of them, yeah. It's comes from.

SPEAKER_05 39:30

They don't know that there's snow in some African countries. Yes, they don't know. They don't know that there's no snow. Even they don't know we get hails as well. Like the the best BBL in the world is in Africa. Nigeria. Oof. If you want to have the best IV um body, like I'm running to save up money. So like I want to have ways, so I can go have nice big boonda. Like, because so cheap, and the every Niger has the most educated black people, even in America. Yes, we control like when you're going to hospital. And I feel like they hate it as look look at look at South Africans. Like black.

SPEAKER_04 40:12

Look at Kenyan.

SPEAKER_05 40:14

So I like the way I should speak, even though Nigerians do too.

SPEAKER_04 40:17

Actually, for this one, I think Nigerians really hold their hands. Nigerians really fold their hands. That man is dumb as fuck. He's one of my best men. I saw him.

SPEAKER_05 40:31

I messaged him. I message him. I was like, you are mad. You're so dumb. What the hell is it?

SPEAKER_03 40:36

But it was funny. It was funny.

SPEAKER_05 40:38

I think no, no, no. Everything is content. Everything is funny. Everything is constant.

SPEAKER_04 40:42

So my own stem is um we need to have the channel on Uber that we can report so many different things, so many different cases. They don't have something for when an Uber driver pollutes. When he let out gas.

SPEAKER_05 40:58

When you are more boosu, but it's like an Uber.

SPEAKER_04 41:02

I I think it was um. No, it it fart. The fat was crazy. I was inside, I was inside loud. No, no, it wasn't loud.

SPEAKER_05 41:12

Smelling bad. The smell was horrible. But I can wind down, but the one that talks too much is my deep. No, I really don't mind that.

SPEAKER_04 41:19

Because I talk no, I don't like one that talks too much. I don't like to do it. So it depends on my mood. Especially when they come with different. It depends on what you're talking about. Right, actually. But not when I'm inside an Uber and you are 13. But you can report that like just, I mean, if you give them like one star, you see pots.

SPEAKER_05 41:36

You've not entered Uber as oh I not racist. I'm not racist. Like an elderly Indian man Uber.

SPEAKER_04 41:45

All of the Indians, huh?

SPEAKER_05 41:46

No, no, no. I don't mind. I think everybody is like. No, it's just you are talking. No, I I get the culture. I'm not talking about culture. I love that. I love you guys.

SPEAKER_04 41:55

Yeah. I love you guys.

SPEAKER_05 41:58

But this smell.

SPEAKER_04 42:00

What what what smell are you talking about? Because they have like a distinct smell which is like comes from their culture.

SPEAKER_05 42:06

Oh god, the smell is not good. I don't want to know whatever the smell is.

SPEAKER_04 42:10

I think it's part of their culture.

SPEAKER_05 42:11

I would rather use I smell like weed. That's something like part of their culture. Not smelling. No, she has they have it. It might be their food ball or their incense, but don't do it in the over car.

SPEAKER_04 42:20

No, I I think once you wear like a clothing, your smell will be. So I don't think you necessarily do it in the car. But I think it's part of the culture. Maybe that's how their house smells.

SPEAKER_05 42:30

Oh, because I smoke, I should get asthma attack from smoking. No. I really get triggers from smell. Oh I get like when the smell is so hard for me, I guess I start getting teary. My nose is starting getting stuffy. I start.

SPEAKER_04 42:48

Yeah, but I think that is part of their culture. But mine is the ones that are fat. Well, you can't repulsive actually. No, I've tried. They don't do anything. Because it's speaking. You respond my.

SPEAKER_05 42:59

It's involuntary action. Leave them in and let them fart. They're gonna control it. It's involuntary action, let them fart.

SPEAKER_04 43:05

I think she acknowledged it and said, I'm sorry I did that. Did you ask him though? I can't, it's embarrassing. Like, how do you ask? Oh, did you fart? Yeah, did you fart? I don't think that's a real question. Anyways, I think, oh my god, it's just an episode. But, anyways, um, thank you guys so much for watching. And of course, if you want to send us a dilemma, um go to our barrier, click on the link, period. Send the dilemma to KaliOffutter at tv.com. And if you want to remain um anonymous or you want to show yourself, don't slide into our dms. Share it always. No, they're not anonymous if they slide into our dms. That's what I said. If you want to show your show yourself, yes, comment to RDMs, you know, but I will judge you though. Yes, I we don't judge. I don't know we don't judge. So my name is Judging. Okay, until next time, we remain. Women your host will see and of course Jay. This is the spracella in physics.

SPEAKER_01 44:10

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